What have I learned from this relationship?

What have I learned from this relationship?

1) That I wish I'd spent more of the period of us having significant time for each other establishing how we'd want to process the conflicts ahead.

2) That I took much for granted & built some fantasies for the future without establishing enough of a shared bedrock.

3) That I pressed some buttons that set off alarms.

4) That I could do better.

5) That I know more clearly what I'd be looking for in any future relationship in terms of acceptance in particular.

6) That I find it hard to give affection, acceptance, appreciation in the way that it is perhaps most wanted by people of this era and that I crave too.

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Do let me know please if this email has been clear/helpful or not & what you would really like. Is that OK with you?

http://www.actionforhappiness.org/take-action/understand-each-other's-needs

With love from
Paul

On interacting with others:
1) "Many people like Paul exist; who do things we don't like"
http://ethicaloutings.blogspot.com/p/many-people-like-paul-exist-who-do.html

2) Your Needs are Equal to Mine: http://yourneedsequaltomine.wordpress.com/

3) Gateway to harmonising with others (eg through an ApologyPlus!) http://communicatingneeds.org.uk

On Cancer: http://bit.ly/yOm4Qk

On the phone: 0780 70 66 202

Community Engagement and Community Development in Hastings and St Leonards:
http://additionalinfo.blogspot.com/2012/01/community-engagement-and-community.html
& http://ethicaloutings.blogspot.com/p/links.html

Paul is AKA "The Imperfect Idealist" & AKA Lend-It-All Man:
Anything I own you can borrow, & much you can keep as I'm de-cluttering, aledgedly!